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		<title>By: Kylie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kylie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jun 2010 10:50:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks, Val!

I still chuckle when I think about this story, and while I&#039;m obviously a tad biased, my son IS a very bright little man.  :)

I just love the way children view life.  Us adults can learn a great deal from them! 

My grandfather used to say that there is always a way to fix something and if there isn&#039;t a way, then create one! (and my beloved Gongy - yes, that&#039;s what I called him! - could fix pretty much anything!).

Thanks for commenting! 

~ Kylie ~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Val!</p>
<p>I still chuckle when I think about this story, and while I&#8217;m obviously a tad biased, my son IS a very bright little man.  <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I just love the way children view life.  Us adults can learn a great deal from them! </p>
<p>My grandfather used to say that there is always a way to fix something and if there isn&#8217;t a way, then create one! (and my beloved Gongy &#8211; yes, that&#8217;s what I called him! &#8211; could fix pretty much anything!).</p>
<p>Thanks for commenting! </p>
<p>~ Kylie ~</p>
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		<title>By: Val Wilcox</title>
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		<dc:creator>Val Wilcox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jun 2010 01:11:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ah, flip the thoughts around to positive.  Such an empowering lesson to be learned from a very bright young gentleman.  That&#039;s how we should learn to perceive things.  If one way doesn&#039;t work - try another!  

Great lesson shared Kylie,
Val :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ah, flip the thoughts around to positive.  Such an empowering lesson to be learned from a very bright young gentleman.  That&#8217;s how we should learn to perceive things.  If one way doesn&#8217;t work &#8211; try another!  </p>
<p>Great lesson shared Kylie,<br />
Val <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
<span class="cluv">Val Wilcox&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.valwilcox.com/when-the-why-is-big-enough/">When the Why is Big Enough…</a><span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip 14679" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheartplus.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Linda G Cox</title>
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		<dc:creator>Linda G Cox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 03:55:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We learn so much from watching our children!  I thank you for paying attention and sharing! We&#039;ve skyped so much I can hear your Australian accent when I read your posts!  I love it!
.-= Linda G Cox&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://lindagraceonline.com/list-building-the-key-to-internet-marketing-success/&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;List Building: The Key to Internet Marketing Success&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We learn so much from watching our children!  I thank you for paying attention and sharing! We&#8217;ve skyped so much I can hear your Australian accent when I read your posts!  I love it!<br />
<span class="cluv"> Linda G Cox&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://lindagraceonline.com/list-building-the-key-to-internet-marketing-success/">List Building: The Key to Internet Marketing Success</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Kylie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kylie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 11:58:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Michaele - I&#039;m pleased you like my writing style (it&#039;s how I talk, too!) :)

I totally agree with you at how being excited about what you&#039;re doing makes the task all the more enjoyable and easier to do.  

I think that it boils down to building self esteem and confidence in someone.  Anyone who feels confident in what they are doing is already ahead those who are less certain, purely because they have a better mindset about it.  And the more success someone has, the more their confidence increases, the more likely they are to try new things, and on it goes.  

~ Kylie ~</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Michaele &#8211; I&#8217;m pleased you like my writing style (it&#8217;s how I talk, too!) <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I totally agree with you at how being excited about what you&#8217;re doing makes the task all the more enjoyable and easier to do.  </p>
<p>I think that it boils down to building self esteem and confidence in someone.  Anyone who feels confident in what they are doing is already ahead those who are less certain, purely because they have a better mindset about it.  And the more success someone has, the more their confidence increases, the more likely they are to try new things, and on it goes.  </p>
<p>~ Kylie ~</p>
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		<title>By: Michaelé Harrington</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michaelé Harrington</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Feb 2010 08:40:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey Kylie,

What an adorable story! I love how your posts always have a mix of fun and a huge amount of personality.

It&#039;s a great reminder to bringing awareness back to where our focus is.  
I spent most of my life thinking that the &#039;right&#039; thing to do in order to grow was to focus on my weaknesses, or the things I couldn&#039;t do.
I&#039;ve since done a complete turn around on that thought process. Mostly due to reading a lot of Eben Pagan&#039;s material. It actually makes so much sense that people thrive when they start to focus on improving what they are already good at.
It&#039;s hard to be passionate about what you&#039;re not good at but easy to get excited about what you are.

Michaelé
.-= Michaelé Harrington&#180;s last blog ..&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.michaele-harrington.com/network-marketing/how-to-create-a-raving-tribe-of-cheerleaders-begging-to-syndicate-your-content&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;How To Create A Raving Tribe Of Cheerleaders Begging To Syndicate YOUR Content&lt;/a&gt; =-.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey Kylie,</p>
<p>What an adorable story! I love how your posts always have a mix of fun and a huge amount of personality.</p>
<p>It&#8217;s a great reminder to bringing awareness back to where our focus is.<br />
I spent most of my life thinking that the &#8216;right&#8217; thing to do in order to grow was to focus on my weaknesses, or the things I couldn&#8217;t do.<br />
I&#8217;ve since done a complete turn around on that thought process. Mostly due to reading a lot of Eben Pagan&#8217;s material. It actually makes so much sense that people thrive when they start to focus on improving what they are already good at.<br />
It&#8217;s hard to be passionate about what you&#8217;re not good at but easy to get excited about what you are.</p>
<p>Michaelé<br />
<span class="cluv"> Michaelé Harrington&#180;s last blog ..<a href="http://www.michaele-harrington.com/network-marketing/how-to-create-a-raving-tribe-of-cheerleaders-begging-to-syndicate-your-content">How To Create A Raving Tribe Of Cheerleaders Begging To Syndicate YOUR Content</a> <span class="heart_tip_box"><img class="heart_tip" alt="My ComLuv Profile" border="0" width="16" height="14" src="http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-content/plugins/commentluv/images/littleheart.gif"/></span></span></p>
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		<title>By: Kylie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kylie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 04:57:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sally, you&#039;re spot on regarding the more positive you are, the more positive events that occur and the more you have.

Staying positive is something that doesn&#039;t always come easily, however, like anything, the more you practice, the better you get at it :)

Thanks for taking the time to contribute to the conversation :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sally, you&#8217;re spot on regarding the more positive you are, the more positive events that occur and the more you have.</p>
<p>Staying positive is something that doesn&#8217;t always come easily, however, like anything, the more you practice, the better you get at it <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Thanks for taking the time to contribute to the conversation <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sally Bath</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sally Bath</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Feb 2010 03:16:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for the reminder Kylie. I really try to keep a positive mind set, which is generally not so difficult. The real test is when you&#039;re in a bad situation, I try to challenge myself to turn my mood around. From my experience  I found is that if you can stay positive more often then you have more positive events occurring in your life which is much more fun.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for the reminder Kylie. I really try to keep a positive mind set, which is generally not so difficult. The real test is when you&#8217;re in a bad situation, I try to challenge myself to turn my mood around. From my experience  I found is that if you can stay positive more often then you have more positive events occurring in your life which is much more fun.</p>
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		<title>By: Kylie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kylie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 12:25:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Darlene

Thanks - I&#039;m glad you enjoyed it! :)

My son is 5 years old.  He is starting school tomorrow and is very excited about it.  I&#039;m pleased that he&#039;s excited and looking forward to it, but I&#039;m sad for me :(   It&#039;ll be weird not having any kids at home with me during the day!  

He&#039;s the youngest of the three kids.  My eldest daughter is in Grade 5 this year and the middle one is in Grade 2.

I&#039;ll get used to it over time :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Darlene</p>
<p>Thanks &#8211; I&#8217;m glad you enjoyed it! <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>My son is 5 years old.  He is starting school tomorrow and is very excited about it.  I&#8217;m pleased that he&#8217;s excited and looking forward to it, but I&#8217;m sad for me <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':(' class='wp-smiley' />    It&#8217;ll be weird not having any kids at home with me during the day!  </p>
<p>He&#8217;s the youngest of the three kids.  My eldest daughter is in Grade 5 this year and the middle one is in Grade 2.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll get used to it over time <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kylie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kylie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 11:52:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Matt

Thanks for the comment :)

Kids are so literal, aren&#039;t they?  How old is your son?  Mine is 5 years old.  

I totally agree about removing the negative from an instruction/comment, although, it&#039;s often easier said than done!  I do my best to phrase things in a positive way though.

And yes, kids have an amazing knack of teaching us things by just being kids :)  Their perspective is usually so different to ours, isn&#039;t it?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Matt</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Kids are so literal, aren&#8217;t they?  How old is your son?  Mine is 5 years old.  </p>
<p>I totally agree about removing the negative from an instruction/comment, although, it&#8217;s often easier said than done!  I do my best to phrase things in a positive way though.</p>
<p>And yes, kids have an amazing knack of teaching us things by just being kids <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   Their perspective is usually so different to ours, isn&#8217;t it?</p>
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		<title>By: Kylie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kylie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jan 2010 11:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Kimberly

Thanks for the comment - I&#039;m glad you enjoyed my post :)  It still makes me laugh remembering that day.  

My son is hilarious (without trying to be) and I just love the things he comes out with!  I&#039;ve kept a record of all the funny things that all three kids have said and done since they were really little.  At the time you think you&#039;ll always remember, but over time it&#039;s easy to forget.  My book keeps all those memories for me so that I don&#039;t have to worry about losing them.

And yes, my son WILL go far in life :) .  I have no doubt about that.  He&#039;s interested in everything, loves learning, is particularly observant and has the most amazing memory that I&#039;ve ever come across in a child.  He literally remembers everything! (which isn&#039;t always a good thing! lol).

He starts school tomorrow, actually, and is busting to learn everything!  I&#039;m rapt that he&#039;s excited, but sad for me that I&#039;m not going to have my littlest buddy at home with me anymore!

One of the things that he&#039;s looking forward to doing at school, is using the computers.  When I asked him why that was, he said, &quot;Because you don&#039;t let me use yours, Mum!&quot;.    lol - true, in fact!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Kimberly</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment &#8211; I&#8217;m glad you enjoyed my post <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   It still makes me laugh remembering that day.  </p>
<p>My son is hilarious (without trying to be) and I just love the things he comes out with!  I&#8217;ve kept a record of all the funny things that all three kids have said and done since they were really little.  At the time you think you&#8217;ll always remember, but over time it&#8217;s easy to forget.  My book keeps all those memories for me so that I don&#8217;t have to worry about losing them.</p>
<p>And yes, my son WILL go far in life <img src='http://www.kyliedoak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  .  I have no doubt about that.  He&#8217;s interested in everything, loves learning, is particularly observant and has the most amazing memory that I&#8217;ve ever come across in a child.  He literally remembers everything! (which isn&#8217;t always a good thing! lol).</p>
<p>He starts school tomorrow, actually, and is busting to learn everything!  I&#8217;m rapt that he&#8217;s excited, but sad for me that I&#8217;m not going to have my littlest buddy at home with me anymore!</p>
<p>One of the things that he&#8217;s looking forward to doing at school, is using the computers.  When I asked him why that was, he said, &#8220;Because you don&#8217;t let me use yours, Mum!&#8221;.    lol &#8211; true, in fact!</p>
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